Know your standards
Build your Musts, Wants, and Likes so you know what truly matters in a future spouse. Add Bible verses to keep your standards grounded.
Pray. Date. Discern.
Date with wisdom, clarity, and faith
Discern is a private companion for Christian singles. It helps you think and pray through a real person you have met, weighing faith, character, and what matters most to you, instead of going on feelings alone.
- Set your Musts, Wants, and Likes
- See how someone fits over time
- A daily verse and a prayer list
Everything you need to date with a clear head
Weigh a real person, thoughtfully
Track how someone lines up with your faith, character, kindness, communication, and more, instead of relying on a first impression.
See patterns over time
Relationships take time. Update your notes as you get to know someone and build a clearer picture, week by week.
Spot green and red flags
Notice healthy qualities and real concerns early, so you can make wiser decisions before your heart is fully in.
A faith-friendly companion
Talk through what is on your heart with a private companion. Reflect on a specific person, on singleness, or on your walk with God.
A daily verse and prayer list
Stay close to God with a verse each day and a personal prayer list for the people and decisions on your heart.
How Discern works
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Name what matters
Set your Musts, Wants, and Likes, the few things you will not bend on and the things you would simply enjoy.
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Watch how someone fits
As you get to know a real person, note what you see. Discern keeps it private and helps you read the pattern.
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Pray and decide
Bring clarity to your prayers and your trusted counsel. You make the decision, with a clear head and an open heart.
Common questions
Is Discern a dating app where I swipe and match?
No. There is no one to browse and no one to match with. Discern is a private space for thinking and praying through someone you have already met, on your own terms.
Does the app decide whether someone is right for me?
Never. Discern helps you see clearly and pray honestly. The decision is always yours, made with Scripture, prayer, and the people who know you well.
Who is Discern for?
Christian singles who are dating with marriage in mind, across many traditions: Catholic, Protestant, non-denominational, Orthodox, or simply exploring the faith.
Is my information private?
Yes. Your people, notes, reflections, and prayers stay on your device. Discern is your private space, not a social network.
What does it cost?
Discern is free to download. An optional subscription unlocks the full experience. You can read the terms before you decide.